Kathleen Jansen Kathleen Jansen

Anxiety Management

Anxiety can feel overwhelming. But while anxiety is a natural response to stress, it doesn’t have to control your life. By learning strategies to manage it, you can start to feel more at ease and regain a sense of balance.

Here are five practical ways to manage anxiety:

1. Practice Mindful Breathing

When anxiety strikes, our breath becomes shallow and rapid. By focusing on your breath, you can trigger your body’s natural relaxation response. Try the 4-7-8 technique: inhale for 4 seconds, hold your breath for 7 seconds, and exhale slowly for 8 seconds. Repeat this process a few times to help calm your nervous system.

2. Challenge Negative Thoughts

Anxiety often stems from irrational or exaggerated thoughts. When you catch yourself spiraling into "what-if" scenarios, try to reframe your thinking. Ask yourself: What evidence do I have that this is true? Is there another way to look at the situation? By challenging these thoughts, you can gain a more balanced perspective and reduce unnecessary worry.

3. Get Moving

Physical activity is a powerful antidote to anxiety. Exercise releases endorphins, which improve mood and reduce stress. You don’t need to run a marathon—simple activities like taking a walk, practicing yoga, or stretching can help release built-up tension and shift your focus away from anxious thoughts.

4. Create a Grounding Routine

When you’re feeling overwhelmed, grounding exercises can bring you back to the present moment. One effective method is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique, where you identify 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. This helps refocus your mind and calms your anxiety by engaging your senses.

5. Limit Stimulants and Prioritize Rest

Caffeine, sugar, and other stimulants can heighten feelings of anxiety. Pay attention to how your body reacts after consuming these substances and consider reducing your intake. Additionally, adequate sleep is essential for mental health. Poor sleep can exacerbate anxiety, so aim for a regular sleep schedule and prioritize restful, uninterrupted sleep.

Final Thoughts

Managing anxiety is a journey, and it's okay to seek help along the way. These strategies can be a great starting point, but remember that everyone’s experience with anxiety is unique. If your anxiety feels unmanageable, consider reaching out to a mental health professional for guidance and support.

By taking small steps each day, you can regain a sense of control over your anxiety, and most importantly, begin to feel more at peace in your daily life.

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Navigating the Noise: Mental Wellness in a World on Fire

It feels like we're living in a constant state of crisis. From global conflicts and economic uncertainty to social divisions and environmental anxieties, the news cycle churns out a relentless stream of stress. It's no wonder our mental health is taking a hit. If you're feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or just plain exhausted, know that you're not alone. This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything is okay. It's about acknowledging the challenges and finding healthy ways to navigate them.

The constant barrage of information, often conflicting and emotionally charged, can leave us feeling helpless and disconnected. It's easy to get sucked into doom scrolling, endlessly refreshing news feeds, and amplifying our anxieties. While staying informed is important, it's crucial to set boundaries. Think of it like managing your physical diet – too much junk food makes you feel unwell, and too much negative information can have the same effect on your mental state.

So, how do we cope in these turbulent times? Here are a few strategies to consider:

  • Curate your information intake: Limit your exposure to news and social media, especially if you find it triggers your anxiety. Choose a few reliable sources and set specific times to check for updates. Avoid engaging in endless scrolling or getting caught up in online arguments. Remember, you have control over what you consume.

  • Focus on what you can control: The sheer scale of global events can feel overwhelming, leaving us feeling powerless. Shift your focus to the things you can influence. This might be your local community, your personal relationships, or even your own well-being. Taking small, actionable steps can create a sense of agency and purpose.

  • Practice self-care: This isn't a luxury, it's a necessity. Prioritize activities that nourish your mind and body. This could be anything from exercise and healthy eating to spending time in nature, listening to music, or practicing mindfulness. Find what works for you and make it a regular part of your routine.

  • Connect with others: Talking about your feelings can be incredibly helpful. Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or a mental health professional. Sharing your burdens can lighten the load and provide valuable perspective. Remember, you don't have to go through this alone.

  • Seek professional help: If you're struggling to cope, don't hesitate to seek professional help. A therapist or counselor can provide support, guidance, and evidence-based strategies for managing anxiety and stress. There's no shame in asking for help – it's a sign of strength. Feel free to reach out to us - and if you do not feel like we are a good fit we are happy to give recommendations.

  • Remember your values: In times of uncertainty, it's important to stay grounded in your values. What matters most to you? Focusing on your values can provide a sense of direction and purpose, even when the world around you feels chaotic.

This is a marathon, not a sprint. There will be good days and bad days. Be kind to yourself, practice self-compassion, and remember that it's okay to not be okay. By taking care of our mental health, we can build resilience and navigate these challenging times with greater strength and clarity. We can't control the world, but we can control how we respond to it.

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Beginning our journey

Welcome to Boundless Family Therapy & Wellness’s blog! We're so glad you're here. This is the first step in what we hope will be a valuable resource for you on your journey to mental wellness. We believe that everyone deserves access to support and understanding, and we're passionate about creating a safe and compassionate space for healing and growth.

For many, the idea of seeking therapy can feel daunting. There can be stigma associated with mental health struggles, or perhaps you're unsure where to even begin. Maybe you're thinking, "Is my problem 'big enough' to warrant therapy?" or "I should be able to handle this on my own." These are common thoughts, and we want to assure you that prioritizing your mental health is never a sign of weakness – it's a sign of strength.

Just like we take care of our physical health, our mental and emotional well-being deserves the same attention and care. Think of it this way: you wouldn't hesitate to see a doctor if you had a persistent cough or a broken bone. Similarly, if you're experiencing persistent feelings of sadness, anxiety, or overwhelm, seeking professional help can be incredibly beneficial.

Why is Mental Health Important?

Mental health impacts every aspect of our lives. It affects how we think, feel, and behave. It influences our relationships, our work, and our overall sense of well-being. When our mental health is struggling, it can make even everyday tasks feel incredibly challenging. Ignoring these struggles can lead to:

  • Decreased productivity and difficulty concentrating: Stress and anxiety can make it hard to focus and perform at your best.

  • Strained relationships: Unresolved emotional issues can impact how we interact with others, leading to conflict and isolation.

  • Physical health problems: The mind-body connection is powerful. Mental health issues can manifest in physical symptoms like headaches, fatigue, and digestive problems.

  • Reduced overall enjoyment of life: When you're struggling with your mental health, it can be difficult to experience joy and fulfillment.

Taking the First Step with Boundless Family Therapy & Wellness:

We understand that reaching out for help can be intimidating. That's why we strive to create a welcoming and supportive environment where you can feel comfortable and understood. At Boundless family Therapy & Wellness, we offer individual therapy, couples counseling, family therapy, and are looking to add group counseling for a range of concerns, including: anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues.

We believe in a collaborative approach to therapy, working together with you to identify your goals and develop a personalized treatment plan that meets your unique needs. We are committed to providing compassionate and evidence-based care to help you navigate life's challenges and achieve your full potential.

What's Next?

In future blog posts, we'll be exploring various topics related to mental health, offering practical tips and strategies for managing stress, improving relationships, and cultivating self-care. We also encourage you to reach out to us directly if you have any questions or would like to schedule a consultation.

Remember, you're not alone. Taking care of your mental health is an act of self-love and a crucial step towards living a happier and healthier life. We're here to support you every step of the way.

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